Join me this month as I discuss what’s at the root of why we want what we think we can’t have. Renown psychologist Dr. Pauline Willan, author of Taming Your Inner Brat: A Guide for Transforming Self-defeating Behavior, gives three specific reasons why you are always wanting what you can’t have:
- Heightened Attention.
- Perceived Scarcity.
- Psychological Reactance.
A dating advice columnist and client told me she believed “that women don’t feel attraction for men that are pushovers.” Some psychologists believe that the psychology behind us wanting what we can’t have is in satisfying our ego.
But what if the only reason you want what you can’t have is because somewhere deep down inside of you, there is a knowing…an innate knowing that this is where you’re meant to go, to grow and evolve into?
What if it’s like a beacon, an inner guidance system designed to lead you to who you were always meant to become?
How do we begin to let that in and follow it?
Let’s dive in.
xxMeg
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This video is not intended to disrespect anyone’s beliefs in any way. It is an offering of resources from a Clinical Hypnotherapist to help provide access to one’s own inner resources, engage parasympathetic drive and assist nervous system regulation.
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safety… then repair… then remembrance.
🕯️ The Lighthouse Within
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